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The
life we live is full of challenges. And some of these challenges include fear,
worry and uncertainty. In my last blog entry, I featured an article titled,
“How to Deal with Anxiety or Worry,” this time however, we will be learning
something different. Let me start by saying- life without challenges is an
illusion! And that is why we are faced with some every now and then, in our
businesses, health, and even in our various relationships. However, confidence
is a very important attribute which comes in handy when you are trying to
protect yourself from the slings and arrows of negativity that often come with
life.
Confidence
is a habit that should be honed and strengthened each day, because you see,
there is a direct relationship between our attitude and the choices we
ultimately make. For example, someone with very low confidence will ultimately
make choices that will shrink growth and progress, rather than boost it. In
this article, you will learn some practical strategies that will boost your
confidence to an all-time high thereby causing a boomerang effect that will
result in growth for the different facets of your life- and especially for your
business!
Before
we begin to tackle this essential habit called ‘confidence,’ let us first take
out the garbage can. What do I mean? Well, keep reading: you see, exuding
confidence that drives growth means that you have successfully stamped out the
negative forces that often strike – once and for all! You must first take out
the garbage that’s weighing you down and invariably holding you back. Let this
be your starting point.
So what’s in the
garbage can?
You
see, I only used this term to refer to all the messes in your life especially
those you have failed to deal with. They could be occupational or career,
health, legal, financial, organizational messes and they could also include the
very familiar relationship struggles. When these build up, they can overwhelm
you. The most popular reason many people won’t deal with their garbage is FEAR
– fear bears a certain fruit called DOUBT and in turn, seeds of doubt when
planted eventually yields a loss of confidence. It’s a vicious cycle that can
destroy your business, health, relationships, dreams and life in general.
Some
people have accumulated so much garbage over the years, it feels as if they are
pulling on a truck-load of wood behind them. There are 3 ways to handle this;
DENY IT – you heard me right! Isn’t that
what most people do? You could choose to act like it is not there, when in
actual fact it is. And the results? Well, let’s just say majority of the
results gotten from denial will be consequences that you will not like!
STAND AT A HALT – ever heard the phrase – ‘stand
still; do not move’? This is simply the kind of life that many people are
living. Their life just stops – sort of. They do not fall back but they do not
make progress either. And you know what? This will frustrate you even more
because at the end of the day – you still have a trash-can filled with garbage
waiting to be taken out! And this is the point where many people are with their
businesses, and lives in general. They lack the confidence they need to forge
ahead and yet they refuse to dump the garbage.
STEP INTO YOUR FEAR
– you can
confront the issue head on! Quit obvious right? If it is, why do most people
back out of it? Let me tell you why. Many times we do not like confrontation –
not only is it overwhelming, but it gets uncomfortable too. Plus, there’s
usually too much at stake, and sometimes it may not work out the way you want
it to – OUCH! Hurts, I know. Now, if
you take a glance upwards you’ll spot a phrase that helps, and it reads thus; ‘STEP
INTO YOUR FEAR’.
This
is very critical. Most of the time our fear only exists in our mind. We all
have a very powerful imagination which often blows small issues out of
proportion. Thus we create mental pictures that are ridiculous when compared to
the facts.
Another
important factor is the energy you consume when you live in fear. You should
not have all that vitality bottled up because it will restrict your capacity.
There’s a popular quote that reads; “Everything you want is on the other side
of fear.” If you want to gain confidence, accelerate your progress and restore
your energy to maximum levels then you must confront your fears. Make a decision
now to deal with your garbage once and for all! Give it your best shot. Put out
the trash and move on. In fact, make this a habit. Just like you take out the
physical garbage in your home regularly, also do same to the invisible garbage
that is holding you back. Every week something will happen that needs to be
resolved – do not allow these things to linger, instead handle them promptly,
and do so with confidence. You will live a refreshingly simple and uncluttered
life afterwards!
ACTION STEPS
While
you are reading this I want you to pause, take out a notepad and do this; make
a list of all the issues that you want resolved. Write down at least three of
them. Then write down a SPECIFIC way to resolve each one. What will your action
plan be? Clearly define it! And finally, decide on the date you are going to
have this completed. THEN GET STARTED!
I’ll
stop here for now, but next week I’ll be sharing in depth, SIX STEPS FOR
BUILDING CONFIDENCE THAT WILL DRIVE GROWTH for your business and life in
general, so watch out for it.
BUT
– if you would like to know what these SIX STEPS
are, right away, then CLICK on the LINK below to get a free copy of my
E-BOOK on Amazon titled;
“Building Confidence That Drives Growth: Six (6) Steps For Building Confidence.”
“Building Confidence That Drives Growth: Six (6) Steps For Building Confidence.”
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