You know, the reason why many of us women are here and there at the same time is mostly because we are often lost in a large crowd where each person has somewhat a negative or positive influence on the other or on a group of persons. For us women, it is so easy for us to be carried along per say, this being mainly because of our dependent nature and so, many of us fail to have a mind of our own. This is a very common trend among females as many have adopted standards, traits, values and attributes that have been prompted by the society rather than self. For instance, certain roles of the woman have been undertaken by many women merely because society demands such of them and eventually, most of these roles become burdensome on some, because, in simple terms, they feel they are merely doing what others expect or want them to do and not what they really want for themselves. Perhaps, this feeling of dissatisfaction could be because such women are yet to discover their purpose or reason for their existence, hence, they find themselves acting in the shadows who are actively working out their purpose or dreams, and believe you me, it could be with positive or negative effects.
As a woman it is very important that you stand for something and by this I mean have your own set standards and values. Its really okay to have people you consider as mentors or role models, but it is also good to set standards for yourself, you shouldn't always permit the influence of other people in your life, especially when it will yield negative effects.
Lastly, for you to stand out, you have to stand for something, speak up and have your OWN-SET STANDARDS. Its high time you asked yourself what really matters to you, what you consider important and what is not. You need to own a value system too. Once you have this in place, you'd discover that life has a whole new meaning for you!!!
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