YOU CAN HAVE BETTER (Dealing With Failed Relationships) PART 3

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Scene 3; “.....would I ever be able to overcome this, but I still love him dearly, can I love another?"
 I take it you have doubts, we all do at some point. But you see, the thing is, the moment you start questioning your ability to overcome, the harder it is for you to do so. I think rather than doubting, at that moment, fill your thoughts with so much positivity, see yourself as overcoming your predicament rather than doubting yourself. And yes! I know you still love him, but you should be thinking of how you would give such love and more to someone more deserving of it. Someone you'd be in a better relationship with.
Scene 4; “.....Or maybe its all my fault- I'm just not good enough. "
 Hmmm, the BLAME game, I call it. Sweetheart quit blaming yourself (it could be true that you had some inadequacies, we ALL do), instead, if you realized you made certain mistakes in your past relationship, all you need do is AMEND them, take correction and move on. Truth is, many times, it is as much his fault as it is yours, that's why I call it ‘the blame game' and there isn't much need for that.

Now, how can you overcome the shock of a breakup? How can you heal? How can you have a better relationship or a better man? The answer is quite simple, start first by changing your mentality. Yes! CHANGE your MENTALITY. That's key to moving on. Stay positive, know that you can love again- and you will. Know that there are many men out there who are ‘dying' to be the right one for you. Know and believe that you are more than capable of working on your inadequacies and actually conquering them. Also, point out those things that led to the relationship failing, see how you can avert those things in your next relationship. In other words, turn the weaknesses into strength. Yes! that's it! And you'll be on your way to HAVING BETTER!!

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